Tuesday, April 12, 2011

magic stick



spring has delivered so many colorful smiles to the face of earth,and one just stick on my lips since i am looking at my small garden so fulfill and bloomed,

it is almost 10 am,kids left for school and my husband is gone to his office,every morning when i wakeup every one seems in so hurry,i am in love with such moves and sounds who makes me feel more active and give me pleasure to support my family for their busy lives,

i except challenge of time and mostly succeed to sending everybody on time,

when they are gone house become just still and silent,like a fast noisy train just crossed the station, and left the silence behind,before starting house chores i take my mug of tea and sit beside the garden,it always makes me cheer and vanish all loneliness,

freshness in air is getting through the soul and delivering the peace and joy,sky is shiny blue and birds are enjoying their full of fun flights,i just watered the plants,so their glittering fresh faces are seeming happy and excited,

in such times i always feel like life is complete and has no desire,but it is not just true life always has space to add more betterment,especially to me it is more about mental health,

some time i really wish i could have an magic stick, and with its one move i could change the way of thinking of the whole world,so all kinds greed ,fights, jealousy and bitterness could be thrown away,

and sometime i just say myself to grow up,because it is not possible until the world exist,as humans we are bound to our personal benefits and to protect them we encounter all such negative emotions through out the life,

but dear friends it is cruel realty that we use these emotions even when its not necessary,its just our huge EGO which become larger then us often,and makes the atmosphere negative around,

when i see some years back people were not as irrational and loose temper,in my village there were lots of families who used to share one large house through generations and face all ups and downs together,

there were deferences but living together was not allowing people to be angry with each other for much long,my grandma always said that if you want two people to forget their anger and reunion them,just make them sit front of each other and see in each other's eyes ,you will see they will smile after a while and will be friend again,

i tried it so many times and it worked always,i believe that nobody can hate anybody,its just a timely situation and mood which creates the misunderstandings, and we just keep it on and on so little brick change in huge wall and we just sit silently against it and wait for other to come and say a one single word SORRY,our ego does not allow us to be first even we want to,

why are we so weak and be puppet in hands of our stupid ego,why we easily forget all good time and things we shared together,why we get ready to loose our good friend for nothing,

it seems that we all just became abnormal,little things makes us disturb and make this precious life miserable,

i witnessed it in highly educated people more then people with less knowledge,people who read heavy books live luxury lives and stay far from practical basic beauties of life as warmth of relationship or love and bounding ,become more depressed and over sensitive,such people suffer with Superiority or inferiority complex and lead a very unhealthy living,

instead of them people who taste all beauties of life and live it with its practical challenges stay normal and enjoy the every color of living, they do fight but dont stretch it so far,their healthy thinking makes all heavy moments short and light,they take it as part of daily life,and always remember each other's positive things more.

life is short and can end in any moment without warning,so why not just live it the moment with is all peace and beauty and the deep sense of gratefulness for our creator.


6 comments:

  1. I like what your grandma told you to make two people forget their anger. It usually works for my two daughters, and also to me and my husband. When we have little arguments, we sit down weirdly facing each other and always ends up laughing. LOL! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

    God bless you!

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  2. wow...wow...wow.....what a write up.... so simple yet true.

    These are the small things which make our life beautiful.

    very well penned thoughts....thanks for sharing.

    Best wishes,
    irfan.

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  3. Full of sound and fury,signifying nothing!
    Yes,life is simple.We make it so complicated.
    Today is the day Lord has given you,rejoice and be happy!

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  4. Baili: That was some though provoking tea at your backyard. Enjoyed it much! Thank you!

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  5. Nice post. Yes, life is too short to stay angry or miserable for long. Have a nice day to you.

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