Monday, April 25, 2011

will be missing you always father



hey friends,

dont know what to write ,my father died about 15 days ago,but i could not be informed by some reasons,so i could not be able to say him good by for his last journey, felt so much empty ,weak and breathless and was on bed for few days,

he was 64, but sick for two and half years,i kept him with me for one year and took good care of him, but about 8 month back he wished to visit his home back in village,so my husband took him there,where mom insisted to keep him along her,

i always found him so calm and quite person and too helpful for everyone around,

one thing about him amazed me always that he seemed always so light and angerless ,even when when my mother felt quite in bad mood,but he never answered her badly but only a smile and cheerful words.

he was not with us for many years ,after him we faced so many miseries in life but still could not hate him and when he came back to us we were happiest family on earth,

but life always play games with you,it defeats you when you think that you have won the battle,

i wish we could stay along for much long or could roll back the time when we were kids and mom and father were always there for us to share each big or small joy and pain of life.

my mother seems so silent and still after him,some time it fears me,right now i find myself her mom and want to wash away her all sadness forever with my big tight hug,

thanks dear friend for sharing my heart,god bless you all.

20 comments:

  1. I emphatize with you, I too lost my lovely daughter last year. Be strong, God will always with you..

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  2. Yes, be strong, and comfort your mother, soon things wold become normal. Think of all the good times with your father, and let that bring happiness to you, and your family.
    Be well and take care.

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  3. My heartfelt condolences Baili..I understand your loss...May god bless his virtuous soul..

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  4. Be strong and Take care of your mother n urself....time is the best healer.

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  5. I'm so sorry Baili for your loss. I lost both my parents and know first hand how empty one feels without your parents. Hold on to your nice memories. Take care of you and your family.

    paula

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  6. My heart goes out to you Baili! I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Stay close to Mom and take good care of her. That would be the only thing you can now do for your Dad.

    Here's my big tight hug to you too. Stay strong.

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  7. There is nothing like the loss of a loved one,especially parents.You feel the loss after it has happened.
    I had wished if my parents were alive,I would have spent my entire wealth on them. I regret, I could have done much more to them when they were alive.But there is no second chance.There is one Biblical solution to long life..that is taking care of parents.
    This is life.And it has to go on.When we become parents,we realize how our parents would have felt about us too.
    Hold on to the good memories.Take good care of mama,it will make you feel better.

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  10. Hi Baili,

    So sorry to know that your father passed away.It must be one of the saddest part of our existence when we loss someone who means so much to us. My sympathy and prayers that you'll get over the grief very soon.

    Just be positive and think that your dear father will watch you and protect you from now on.

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  11. Baili, so sorry to hear of your loss. Nothing in life is harder than facing the death of a loved one. Fond memories of your father and your own love and courage will help see you through.

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  12. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I could hear your pain in your post. Hold onto your loving memories of your father, and I will keep you in my prayers~

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  15. losing a loved one is very sad. I can understand your feelings because I lost my mother 7 years ago. Pray that you are blessed with strength to go through this tough period

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  16. My sincere sympathy. Hope you and your family find comfort in each other's company.

    Marly

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  18. may you remember his best years and celebrate his great memory. may God comfort your heart as you miss him....

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  19. Hi Baili, I hope you find strength and solace in this quiet and sad times. My best : )

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